“What’s happening to me? I love my wife and kids so why can’t I continue hiding my feelings anymore & keep everything under control? I feel like my life is spinning out of control. Why me? Why now? I feel so lost, ashamed, alone & frightened.”

This is a glimpse of where I was when I first discovered the Gay/Bi Married Men of Seattle group. I knew I couldn’t deny my same sex attraction any longer. Trying to do so was taking its toll on my health and well being and everyone in my life was suffering. Something had to give!

The Gay/Bi Married Men of Seattle meet every other week in a safe and anonymous space on the Group Health Cooperative Capital Hill campus. Thursday 7:30 pm to 9:00 pm. Our facilitator can tell you which Thursday and answer any questions you have before attending. Every man is welcome. We hold a social hour after the meeting and you may want to check into our other gatherings. By in large this is a Seattle support group that meets face to face, check our links section to find internet venues.

I first learned of the group’s existence through the SGN classified listings. Not sure of what I would be getting myself in for I carried the info around for weeks before making contact. My wife encouraged me to do so. Once I took that step I found an amazing group of men on the same journey as I, welcoming me into the group. Under the guidelines of confidentiality, honesty, speaking our own truths & not telling others what to do, the group provided me the space to share openly and without fear. I’ve gained insight, perspective and support for making my life decisions. An added plus for me has been the opportunity to contribute to the group process and support my fellow members.

WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN CONTACTING THE GROUP
Be prepared to be warmly greeted and listened to, at whatever your comfort level. You’ll be invited to participate in one of our bi-weekly meetings. There’s no pressure. I’ve come to realize and accept that there are no simple answers nor quick fixes. I see how far I’ve progressed since first coming out, yet still sense how far I have to go and grow. Participating in the Gay/Bi Married Men’s Group is helping me immeasurably in this process. It’s become a core part of my community.

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